
Saturday, December 19, 2015
Week Seven

Week 5.
Week 4.
"When Ameneh Bahrami rejected a man’s marriage proposal, he turned bitter and threw acid into her face leaving her with extreme disfigurements. She went through 19 agonising operations and is permanently blind, but this didn’t stop her wanting justice on the man who ruined her life. In court, the judge wanted the accused to serve a lengthy prison sentence and pay full compensation to Ameneh, but she had different ideas: She asked if she could have exact revenge, by injecting acid into the man’s eyes. The court allowed it as a capital punishment, and arrangements were made for Ameneh to inject 20 drops of acid into her attacker’s eyes to blind him."
Friday, December 18, 2015
Thursday, December 3, 2015
Alone together.
The
overarching theme of Sherry Turkle’s articles is that as our usage of
technology as a resource has expanded, it has come at the expense of our
communication with eachother. As human beings, somewhere along the way, we have
lost the ability to connect with one another, due to our overusage and possible
obsession with technology. She uses examples of families being together, yet
using their smartphones and computers while they are in a space together, and
as Turkle says, we are “alone together”.
In
a sense, I do believe that Turkle makes a valid point. We have become so
reliant on our smartphones and other forms of social technology that we do not
know how to exist without it. Somehow, technology has become this shoulder we
can lean on, or a system of comfort. Whenever we feel a way about something,
instead of taking it up with another person, we often immediately run to social
media to vent about our personal issues. Though we might have someone within
arm’s reach to discuss our issues with, we seek comfort from other people
through the usage of technology, abandoning those close to us for someone else
on the opposing end of the screen.
In
my own personal life, I can sometimes pick up on the themes that Turkle
describes in her articles. I rarely leave my phone at home, and when I do, it
feels as if I am missing a limb. At work, I catch myself occasionally slipping
away to the bathroom to check my phone, and even at social events, it is rare
for me to be out without checking my phone once. Although I do not believe that I am extremely
bad in my habits with my cellphone, there are times where my friends and I go
out for dinner and drinks, and I feel obligated to take away their phones
whenever they spend too much time on them while we’re together. It was only
last week when I had to confiscate my mother’s phone at a restaurant because
she was too preoccupied with updating her facebook.
However,
this does not mean that we are doomed to be this way. In our own lives, we must
regulate our usage of technology. It is up to us to determine when it is
appropriate to use technology/social media and when it is not. The solution is for us to stop relying on our
technology for connections with people and actually focus on strengthening our
connections and interpersonal relationships with the people around us. After
all, putting our phones down and actually engaging with eachother may be our
last saving grace.
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